Parenting twins or triplets

Parents react in different ways when they find out they will be having twins or triplets. There’s no good or bad way to react. It’s perfectly normal to have a lot of questions.

If you’re expecting twins or triplets, your prenatal care will be adjusted accordingly (see Multiple pregnancies (twins, triplets, etc.)). The health professional responsible for your care will explain what this involves.

During the first few months after birth, you’ll have your hands full with feedings, diapers, baths and naps. That’s why it’s important to prepare properly before your two or three babies arrive.

To help you get ready, think about who could lend a hand. You may be able to delegate some childcare and household tasks to family and friends or to resources available through your CLSC (see Support).

You can also organize your living space. Getting ready for twins or triplets doesn’t mean you have to buy two or three of everything. It’s worth asking yourself what you really need. Opting for second‑hand purchases can be a good choice (see Baby products).

Even if your children are identical at birth, they will probably have different schedules. In the beginning, it can be helpful to keep track of each baby’s feeding and care times in a notebook. No matter how busy you are, it’s essential to find time for yourself.

Your children will grow up to become individuals in their own right, but their special bond will develop into a lifelong connection. Part of your role as parents will be to respect each child’s natural development and the unique relationship they share.

For more information, you can consult resources for new and expectant parents of twins and triplets. The resource Mamans Pieuvres is an example.