Holding your newborn
Until your baby is about 3 months old, their neck muscles are not strong enough for them to hold up their head by themselves. It’s important to always support their head and back when you pick them up. That way you prevent their head from wobbling and causing injury.
You may choose to swaddle your newborn in a blanket when you hold them, because some babies like to feel bundled up. However, make sure that they’re not too hot and the blanket isn’t too tight.
Carrying and hugging your baby stimulates them and helps them develop. You won’t “spoil” a child by giving them the comfort and love they need. On the contrary! Hold your baby in your arms as often as you want, whether it’s because they’re crying or not feeling well, or just to give them a cuddle.
Babies like to be carried and rocked. Carrying your baby in a baby carrier (see Baby carriers) or rocking them in your arms is a wonderful way to spend some quality time with them. These intimate moments help your baby develop the feeling of confidence that is so essential for establishing and maintaining the attachment bond.
Don’t worry, your baby is less fragile than they look. They just need to be handled gently and lovingly.